Transference of Merits to the Departed

Idam me ñâtinam hôtu - sukhitâ hontu ñâtayo (3 times)
Let this merit accrue to our departed relatives and may they be happy.

Forgiveness of Shortcomings

Kâyena vâcâ cittena - pamâdena mayâ katam
If by deeds, speech or thought heedlessly, I have done anything wrong,
Accayam khama me bhante - bhûri-paññâ Tathâgata (3 times)
forgive me O Master! O Teacher, Great Wise.